tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-50057040497040019112024-03-05T18:46:01.054-08:00Life is not that hard....The place where I put my thought in writing.Faizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-52266816583742055652016-11-10T08:05:00.000-08:002016-11-10T08:07:00.209-08:00Tips Persediaan ke Darjah SatuBismillah..<br />
Dah lama tak menulis. Bila dah jadi surirumah sekarang, boleh la sambung balik menulis.<br />
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Ok. Tak lama lagi dah nak masuk tahun baru. Mesti ada ibu bapa yang excited anak sulung nak masuk Darjah / Tahun 1 kan? Excited nak beli baju sekolah, alat tulis, beg sekolah. Tapi, tak dapat nak agak apa quantity yang sepatutnya untuk setiap barang yang nak kena beli. Tahun lepas, saya pun sama. Naqib baru nak masuk Tahun 1. Saya banyak bertanya dengan kawan-kawan yang dah ada pengalaman macam Nujaimi & Kak Lena. Masa tu masih kerja di MMHE lagi. So, saya nak share apa yang saya dah praktikkan. Moga-moga bermanfaat pada yang memerlukan.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><u><b>Tip beli baju sekolah:</b></u></span><br />
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<u><b>Anak lelaki:</b></u> <br />
1) Baju uniform (Baju kemeja + seluar biru)- beli paling banyak 2 pasang sahaja sebab dalam seminggu murid-murid akan pakai baju uniform 2 kali sahaja. Beli satu size besar. Maklumla..nak pakai setahun, budak-budak kan cepat membesar.<br />
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2) Seluar sukan (warna hitam/ blue-black - plain) - beli 2 helai jugak. Dalam seminggu, murid-murid kena pakai baju senam 2 kali.<br />
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3) Baju melayu (baju melayu + songkok + samping)- paling sikit 3 pasang. Kena pakai setiap hari Khamis / Jumaat. Guna untuk ke sekolah agama jugak.<br />
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<u><b>Anak perempuan:</b></u><br />
1) Baju uniform (Baju kurung + kain biru)- paling minimum 3
pasang. Beli satu size besar. Maklumla..nak pakai setahun,
budak-budak kan cepat membesar.<br />
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2) Seluar sukan (warna
hitam/ blue-black - plain) - beli 2 helai jugak. Dalam seminggu,
murid-murid kena pakai baju senam 2 kali.<br />
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3) Tudung -
haaa...yang ni kena beli banyak skit. Paling minimum 4 helai. 2 helai
untuk sekolah kebangsaan & 2 helai untuk sekolah agama. Lencana kena
tampal kat tudung so tak boleh nak recycle. Kalau anak-anak yang jenis
comot-comot masa makan tambah pula mak yang tak sempat nak selalu basuh
dan gosok tudung anak, boleh la beli lebih.<br />
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4) Anak tudung (Putih / hitam) <br />
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<u><b>Anak lelaki & perempuan</b></u><br />
1) Singlet - minimum 3 helai<br />
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2) Stokin (putih)- awal-awal ni minimum 3 helai. Stokin ni macam barang pakai buang. sekejap je nak kena beli baru. kalau ada budget lebih boleh beli banyak buat stok.<br />
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3) Kasut (putih) - beli sepasang dulu dah cukup. kalau dapat beli 2 pasang pun ok jugak. Kalau satu kotor atau basah, ada lagi satu spare. Masa setengah tahun, saya dah kena beli kasut baru sebab Naqib dah tak muat. So, tahun ni saya plan nak beli sepasang je masa awal tahun. Kasut lama buat spare. Pastu kat sekolah Naqib, kasut jenis sarong tu tak boleh pakai rupanya. So, make sure beli kasut yang berpelekat / bertali.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><u><b>Tips beli alat tulis, beg dan lain-lain:</b></u></span><br />
1) Beg - 1 untuk sekolah kebangsaan + 1 untuk sekolah agama. Kalau boleh beg sekolah kebangsaan beli yang besar. Senang muat semua buku sekali bawa. Kalau jenis badan kurus (macam Naqib), baik belikan yang ada roda. Beg ni, kalau nak tahan lama, baik beli yang ada quality. Harga agak mahal tapi tahan.<br />
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2) Bekas pensel - beli yang jenis kain. Kalau yang jenis kotak tu cepat je rosaknya. Sama ada besi dia tercabut atau budak-budak buat main baling-baling sampai kemek. Beli yang kecik je dah ok untuk muatkan 2 batang pensel, pemadam, pembaris pendek dan pengorek.<br />
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3) Pensel warna - kalau yang kotak panjang (12 batang) mungkin boleh beli 2 kotak dulu. Budak darjah 1 banyak aktiviti mewarna. Jadi kalau beli lebih pun ok.<br />
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4) Pensel, pemadam, pengorek, pembaris, gam & gunting - Beli banyak buat stok. Barang-barang ni memang selalu nak kena topup. Hilang la, cicir la, kawan ambil la, patah la. Buat la tagging macam mana pun kat barang-barang tu, memang selalu hilang.<br />
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5) Sampul buku plastik - 2 gulung dah cukup. Selotep jangan lupa. <br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><u><b>Tips berjimat & Tips kewangan:</b></u></span><br />
1) Kalau nak beli alat tulis banyak untuk buat stok, lebih baik beli di kedai yang memang khas menjual alat tulis. Ada kedai yang menawarkan harga yang jauh lebih murah jika kita beli dalam kuantity yang banyak. Banyak tu takde la sampai tahap nak bukak kedai. Contohnya, kalau beli pemadam lebih 6 keping, harga boleh turun lagi 20sen sekeping. Contoh je tu. Kalau rasa banyak sangat, boleh buat pakatan dengan kawan2 sepejabat atau adik beradik lain. Memang banyak beza harganya. Saya selalu beli kat kedai Syarikat Kiang, Pusat Pandar Pasir Gudang. Kalau ada member card, boleh dapat lagi murah. Biasanya kedai-kedai ni mula buat sale bulan Disember. Jadi, dah bolehla standby kan budget.<br />
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2) Baju sekolah yang brand biasa-biasa pun dah ok dah. Yang penting senang gosok, tak mudah koyak dan tak mudah kuning.<br />
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3) Boleh start beli berperingkat. Contohnya, gaji bulan Oktober beli alat tulis. Gaji bulan November beli baju sekolah. Gaji bulan Disember harusla untuk bayar buku sekolah dll.<br />
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4) Duit belanja harian - saya bagi RM2 sehari je. Tapi saya bekalkan air jadi dah boleh jimat. <br />
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Saya rasa setakat ni dulu perkongsian saya. Kalau ada yang tertinggal, nnt saya update.<br />
Moga bermanfaat.<br />
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Regards,
FZLFaizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-39104540850383186352013-01-28T19:00:00.001-08:002013-01-28T19:01:26.723-08:00peringatan Allah dtg dlm pelbagai cara....<p>dua hari lepas, Naqib mengadu sakit perut. mama buat apa yg perlu. Naqib nampak aktif je jadi mama tak risau sgt. mlm tadi Naqib masuk tidur awal. saing dengan adik. sblm tidur tu Naqib minta mama popok...tapi mama kata sekejap lagi sbb mama tgh susukan adik. tp mama popok jugak...ala kadar..masa tu baru mama sedar Naqib still sakit perut lagi.</p>
<p>masa sembahyang maghrib, mama tersedar yg sejak adik ada, mama selalu abaikan naqib, selalu marah naqib,  selalu buat2 dgr je apa yg naqib cakap. tetiba mama sedih sgt. what if permintaan Naqib tadi ( mintak mama popok) tu is ur last wish... kalau jadi apa2 pada naqib, mama akan salah kan diri mama sbb mama tak jaga naqib dgn baik.</p>
<p>mungkin naqib sakit perut sbb Allah nak ingatkan mama yg kena jg anak2 mama dgn adil. </p>
<p>mama akan cuba. </p>
<p>mama sayang Naqib.</p>
<div class='separator' style='clear: both; text-align: center;'> <a href='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2xZhRn5YGsBsPrPwGZRewYlQvmWY_EPuDdnnEZB_rcvwcOZElxQPJ03jsa_DJ6iQw70AfwRb834hhs6vS8VEiLGrnm79T4KVDjcrFhmLOBbmePOqQPnDw6MFwCBpMXG4XtEzPE0J3gUs/s1600/2012-10-06%25252020.54.53.jpg' imageanchor='1' style='margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;'> <img border='0' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2xZhRn5YGsBsPrPwGZRewYlQvmWY_EPuDdnnEZB_rcvwcOZElxQPJ03jsa_DJ6iQw70AfwRb834hhs6vS8VEiLGrnm79T4KVDjcrFhmLOBbmePOqQPnDw6MFwCBpMXG4XtEzPE0J3gUs/s400/2012-10-06%25252020.54.53.jpg' /> </a> </div>Faizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-27498980737014029312013-01-08T22:08:00.001-08:002013-01-08T22:09:20.663-08:00kembali terjalin<p>wah..dah setahun lebih rupanya tak tulis apa-apa kat blog... </p>
<p>dlm sethn ni, macam-macam dah berlaku...</p>
<p>1) mama dah kerje kat tempat baru.<br>
2) mama dah tukar kereta baru.<br>
3) mama dah dpt baby baru...baby girl<br>
4) papa dah tukar kereta baru.<br>
5) naqib dah masuk sekolah.</p>
<p>well...byk nak tulis tapi takdw masa..harap2 lepas ni mama blh update selalu bloh ni so that akan ada kenangan yg boleh mama n anak2 mama baca nnt...insyaallah.</p>
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Kenapa mama memilih untuk merancang kehamilan seterusnya? Ini kerana mama rasa mama memerlukan masa untuk diri mama belajar mengurus, mendidik and memberikan sebanyak mungkin kasih sayang pada anak sulung mama, Naqib. Islam mempunyai hukum mengenai perkara ini. Boleh refer di link ini untuk keterangan yang lebih detail.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"> </span></span><a href="http://al-ahkam.net/forum09/viewtopic.php?f=102&t=8171"><span style="color: purple; font-family: inherit;">Islam & Merancang kehamilan</span></a></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Mama pun ingin berkongsi<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>tentang kaedah yang mama pilih untuk proses merangcang ini. Mama telah memilih untuk mengambil suntikan depo previra. </span>Apa itu Suntikan Depo Provera <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>& apakah kesan pengambilannya? Jom, kita baca lebih detail lagi. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Suntikan Depo Provera<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ialah salah satu cara pencegah kehamilan. Ia mengandungi hormon yang bernama <span style="color: #333333;">depot medroxyprogesterone acetate [DMPA]. </span><span style="color: black;">Hormon ini akan memekatkan mukus/lendir pada pintu rahim dan menjadikan sperma susah untuk masuk. Ia juga akan menyebabkan lapisan rahim menipis dan akan mencegah kehamilan berlaku</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Apa kelebihan kaedah ini:</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="color: black;">Kebarangkalian untuk hamil ialah kurang dari 1%. Boleh dikategorikan antara yang sangat berkesan.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="color: black;">S</span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">untikan diambil setiap 12 minggu. Untuk yang selalu lupa makan ubat, kaedah ni sangatla sesuai.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Tidak memberi kesan buruk untuk breastfeeding mommy.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Apa pula keburukan kaedah ini:</span></span></div><ol style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Pendarahan yang tidak teratur. </span></span></li>
</ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Pengalaman mama, tiada pendarahan (haid) berlaku sepanjang <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>(Februari 2009 – Mac 2011) mengambil suntikan kecuali pada bulan Ramadhan 1430 / 2009 ( lebih 8 hari sampai mama jumpa doktor minta pil hentikan pendarahan).</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><ol start="2" style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Kebanyakan orang yang mengambil hormon ini kata, once stop taking this injection, they will be no immediate fertilisation. Maksudnya, bila kita dah stop ambil hormon ni (12 minggu lepas suntikan terakhir), biasanya kita masih belum didatangi haid. <city w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Ada</place></city> sesetengah pendapat kata lebih lama kita mengamalkan kaedah ini, lebih lambat kitaran haid kita kembali normal. <span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">OK, ini sangat tidak sesuai untuk ibu-ibu yang ingin segera hamil selepas merancang. </span></span></li>
</ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: black;"></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: black;">Bagi mama, the first cycle (after stop taking hormone) is about 8 bulan selepas suntikan terakhir. Itu pun hanyalah satu spot. Bulan berikutnya, keadaan masih sama. Tapi mama noticed that tarikh kejadian tu about the same. Yeay, Mama dah rasa macam cycle mama dah nak normal. Then, the third month, mama dah normal. Alhamdulillah. Tak perlu risau lagi. Kembali menjadi wanita normal. </span><span style="color: black; font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></span><span style="color: black;"></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><ol start="3" style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Mengurangkan kandungan kalsium dalam badan – reversible effect setelah menghentikan pengambilan suntikan. </span></span></li>
</ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Lepas berhenti, mama diserang sakit lutut (sebelah kanan) tahap yang mengganggu pergerakan mama (susah nak berjalan dan bangun dari sujud). Bila jumpa doktor, barulah mama tahu sebenarnya sakit lutut ni adalah kesan sampingan suntikan yang mama ambil. So, kena banyakkan pengambilan kalsium untuk ganti balik kalsium yang dah kurang tu.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><ol start="4" style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Peningkatan nafsu makan membawa kepada peningkatan berat badan.</span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"></span></li>
</ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Ni cerita kelakar.. Lepas bersalin, Mama memang kurus macam masa sekolah menengah. Lepas tu berat badan naik. Konon-konon sebab mama amik suntikan ni la agaknya. Tapi nafsu makan biasa je.. Papa sampai nak belikan mama JusMate5 (ubat kurus). </span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; font-family: Wingdings; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">L</span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"> Tapi, bila Mama fikir balik, berat mama naik & maintain macam sebelum mengandung je sebenarnya. So, rasanya, ini bukan effect dari suntikan.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><ol start="5" style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Sakit kepala.</span></span></li>
</ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Once the last injection taken, 4-5 months after that memang mama selalu kena headache. Just a minor headache.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><ol start="6" style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Krem perut</span></span></li>
</ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Side effect ni, mama tak rasa pun.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><ol start="7" style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Rambut Gugur</span></span></li>
</ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Yang ni pun mama rasa mama<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>tak kena.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><ol start="8" style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Penurunan hasrat seksual</span></span></li>
</ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"></span><span style="color: black;">Ehm, absolutely right. Not able to give further comment.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Kesimpulannya, setiap perkara yang kita lakukan, memang ada baik dan buruknya. Selagi ianya tidak melanggar mana-mana hukum & peraturan, kita boleh menjadikannya salah satu pilihan. <span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">So, pada mama suntikan depo privera ini memang effektif pada mama. Kesan sampingan yang ada, pada mama sangat minimal & masih boleh diatasi. Adakah mama mencadangkan ibu-ibu mengambil suntikan ini? Well, tepuk dada, tanya selera ye sebab setiap wanita level hormon lain. So, kesan (positive & negative) itu bergantung kepada level hormon wanita itu sendiri. Yang paling penting, yakinlah Allah mempunyai perancanganNya sendiri. </span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"> </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Semoga mendapat manfaat.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Sumber rujukan : </span><a href="http://networkedblogs.com/hNuNn"><span style="color: purple; font-family: inherit;">http://networkedblogs.com/hNuNn</span></a></span></div><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;">Regards,</span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;"> FZL</span>Faizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-47731892424509757482011-10-05T22:05:00.000-07:002011-10-05T22:55:21.797-07:00The countdown has started<div align="center">21 days left to work with SDE<br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;">which also means I have only 21 days to complete all pending works escpecially the safety & life saving package. There are another 5 items which I need to issue PO. One of them will require tender committee sitting level 4 since the estimated cost is about RM3M. Since Hafiz (my section clique) is also leaving the company which left Mohammad alone, I hope I will be able to setle all of this before my depature. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;">OK, the positive of this countdown is : it is now 25 days away from working with new company. I will try not to hope for the BEST EVER working environment will be but at least able to adopt with what ever working environment will it be. May only the best for me. Amin.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
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</div>Regards, <br />
FZLFaizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0Jalan Suasa, 81700 Pasir Gudang, Johor, Malaysia1.440309 103.919914000000061.438206 103.91581950000007 1.442412 103.92400850000006tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-21260173825491116582011-09-29T21:05:00.000-07:002011-10-09T22:25:06.567-07:00Naqib yang demam malam<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Minggu ini, Naqib demam<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>tapi malam je. Malam Selasa dan Malam Khamis. Hari Khamis tu, mama risau juga masa kat tempat kerja. Takut demam Naqib merebak sbb malam sebelum tu badan Naqib panas sangat. Pagi tu pun, Naqib merengek nak ikut mama pergi kerja.. tak pernah Naqib cakap nak ikut..</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Balik kerja petang Khamis, Nenek kata Naqib baru habis mengamuk. Masa mama sampai pun Naqib macam letih je. Nenek kata siang tu badan Naqib tak panas pun. Alhamdulillah. Tapi Nenek kata kalau Naqib demam malam lagi, mama kena bawa Naqib ke klinik for medical check up. </span>So far, syukur alhamdulillah, Naqib dah sihat cuma susah nak tidur jer.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">So tadi mama browsed internet , nak cari artikel about demam malam. Satu artikel yang mama suka nak share ni, mama baca kat <span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.iluvislam.com"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">www.iluvislam.com</span></a></span> tulisan <strong><span lang="EN-GB" style="color: black; font-family: Calibri; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Dr Che Engku Nor Bahiyah bt Che Engku Muda. </span></strong><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Mama <country-region w:st="on"><place w:st="on">cuba</place></country-region> buat ringkasan artikel tu ye.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Jangan ambil mudah kalau anak-anak demam. </span>So, apa nak buat kalau anak demam:</span></div><ol style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><ol style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="a"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; tab-stops: list 72.0pt;"><strong><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: Calibri; font-weight: normal; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Kalau boleh anda ambillah cuti</span></strong><strong><span lang="NO-BOK" style="font-family: Calibri; font-weight: normal; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"></span></strong></li>
</ol></ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 72pt;"><strong><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; font-family: Calibri; font-weight: normal; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Doktor kata, elok kalau mama ambil cuti untuk pantau keadaan anak. Tapi masa ni mama tak cuti sebab Naqib tak tunjuk tanda-tanda kritikal lain. Lagipun, Nenek lagi berpengalaman and boleh look after Naqib.</span></strong></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><ol style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><ol start="2" style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="a"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; tab-stops: list 72.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Periksa samada tubuh anak anda memerlukan antibiotik.</span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"></span></span></li>
</ol></ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 72pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Antibiotik perlu bila demam sebab bacteria & tongsil bengkak SAHAJA. (oooooooooh, mama baru tahu tentang ini)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 72pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Kalau ambil antibiotik bila badan tak perlukan, antibody badan boleh jadi lemah.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 72pt;"><br />
</div><ol style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><ol start="3" style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="a"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; tab-stops: list 72.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Bezakan antara demam viral dan demam disebabkan oleh bacteria. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">”</i></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Jika demam viral biasanya kanak-kanak tersebut aktif (seperti tidak demam) di siang hari tetapi suhunya panas di malam hari. Jika demam disebabkan bacteria, kanak-kanak sememangnya tidak aktif dan kelihatan lemah sepanjang hari.”</span></i></span></li>
</ol></ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 72pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Mama rasa, Naqib demam viral sebab waktu siang Naqib cergas tak hengat!!</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt;"><br />
</div><ol style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><ol start="4" style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="a"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; tab-stops: list 72.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Sediakan ubat yang sewajarnya untuk anak anda.</span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"></span></span></li>
</ol></ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 72pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Bagus kalau standby ubat yang boleh turunkan temperature. Yang paling cepat bertindak ialah yang masuk ikut bawah tu. </span><span style="color: black; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Other than that, papa dah standby <state w:st="on"><place w:st="on">kan</place></state> cool fever (yang tampal kat dahi tu). Time Naqib dah lena je, baru mama boleh tampal. Kalau tak, Naqib cabut benda tu.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 72pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 72pt;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">”Selain ubat demam samada <strong><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Syrup Paracetamol </span></strong>atau <strong><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Syrup Brufen</span></strong> untuk demam, anda juga perlu menyimpan ubat pil yang dimasukkan ke dalam dubur kanak-kanak atau namanya <strong><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Supp Paracetamol </span></strong>(SUPP PCM). Bagi bayi yang berat <strong><span style="font-family: Calibri;">kurang daripada 12kg</span></strong>, gunalah <strong><span style="font-family: Calibri;">supp PCM 125mg</span></strong>, jika <strong><span style="font-family: Calibri;">berat melebihi 12kg</span></strong>, guna <strong><span style="font-family: Calibri;">supp PCM 250mg</span></strong>.”</span></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 72pt;"><br />
</div><ol style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><ol start="5" style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="a"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; tab-stops: list 72.0pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Kawal suhu. </span></span></li>
</ol></ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 72pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Mama kena make sure suhu badan Naqib stabil setiap 2 jam. </span><span style="color: black;">Kalau panas, boleh lap dengan air suam kat kepala & ketiak. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; text-indent: 18pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 72pt;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">”Sememangnya memerlukan pengorbanan berjaga malam jika anak demam. Akan tetapi yakinlah bahawa anda akan mendapat pahala yang besar dengan pengorbanan ini.”</span></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><ol style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="1"><ol start="6" style="margin-top: 0cm;" type="a"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; tab-stops: list 72.0pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Kalau demam berlarutan sampai 3 hari atau bertambah teruk (skali dengan muntah, sakit perut atau susah nafas), terus la bawa ke emergency room.</span></span></li>
</ol></ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Lepas baca artikel ni, lega lah hati mama. Naqib demam viral je dan alhamdulillah, dah sembuh pun. Sebenarnya... Naqib demam rindu kat papa (yang dah 2 minggu ke offshore) and arwah atok (yang meninggal sebulan lepas) kan?</span></span></div><br />
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Regards, <br />
FZLFaizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-22654450174647238062011-09-23T20:27:00.000-07:002011-10-09T22:25:06.568-07:00Tabahla wahai anakku,Naqib.<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sejak kebelakangan ini, mama perhatikan ada beberapa kelakuan Naqib yang buatkan mama risau. Pertama, Naqib susah nak tidur. Nenek pun cakap Naqib tak tidur siang. Selalunya, kalau Naqib tak tidur siang, Naqib senang tidur malam. Tapi, dah seminggu ni, Naqib susah betul nak tidur. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Kadang-kadang, mama dah separa sedar, Naqib masih lagi tak tidur. Bukan setakat itu sahaja, kalau mama suruh Naqib tidur, Naqib akan cakap ”tak nak, tak nak, tak nak”. Sampai satu tahap, mama dah tak tahu nak buat apa. Kelmarin, mama terbaca satu artikel tentang kuasa ”Bismillahirrahmanirrahim”. Mama pun baca, menghayati maksud dan mintak doa agar Allah kurniakan mama dengan kasih sayang. Alhamdulillah, walaupun mama rasa nak naik suara pada Naqib, dengan kuasa Allah mama pandang je Naqib, dukung, baca zikir...terus Naqib tertidur. Tapi... ada tapi lagi<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ni. Tapi tidur tak lena. Asyik merengek je dalam tidur.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Bukan masalah susah tidur je yang mama risaukan. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Satu petang, lepas mama balik kerja, macam biasala, mama masak kat dapur. Tiba-tiba Naqib datang dan cakap ”mama jom! Takut”. Ish, tak pernah mama ajar Naqib nak takut tiba-tiba. Mama ingat kot-kot ada la gambar apa-apa yang tak best kat TV, tapi...takde pun. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tergerak hati mama nak baca pasal kesan psikologi pada kanak-kanak yang kehilangan orang yang rapat dengan mereka. Maklumla, Naqib baru kehilangan arwah atok (yang rapat dengan Naqib). Kemudian Papa pulak ditugaskan ke laut. Sehari selepas atok meninggal hari tu, Naqib demam. Jadi, mama rasa mungkin Psikologi Naqib sekarang sedang bertindak balas dengan keadaan Naqib ditinggalkan papa. Jadi, mama cari di internet dan jumpa beberapa artikal.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ada 3 artikal yang mama jumpa tapi mama nak share satu artikel je. Boleh check kat link ni </span><a href="http://www.athealth.com/consumer/disorders/childgrief.html"><span style="color: purple; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">http://www.athealth.com/consumer/disorders/childgrief.html</span></a><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Artikel ni tentang kajian kat US untuk kanak-kanak range umur 6-12 years old tentang kanak-kanak yang kematian ibu bapa. Mama dan Papa Naqib masih ada (Moga Allah panjangkan umur kami) cuma papa pergi offsore yang jauh nya mama susah nak kira. Mama tapis kandungan artikel and padankan dengan umur Naqib. </span><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">So, mama jumpa dah jawapan kat masalah Naqib. Dalam artikel tu kata </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">“</span></i><b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial;">What Are the Signs That a Grieving Child Needs Extra Help?</span></i></b></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (1998) cautions parents and teachers that, although most children grieve less over time, counseling might be considered if children exhibit several of these behaviors over an extended period: </span></span></i></div><ol type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: blue; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Depression so severe that a child shows little interest in daily activities </span></span></i></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="color: blue; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Inability to sleep, eat normally, or be alone </span></span></i></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="color: blue; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Regression in behavior to that of a less-mature child </span></span></i></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="color: blue; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Imitation of the deceased person </span></span></i></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="color: blue; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Repeatedly wishing to join the deceased </span></span></i></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="color: blue; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Loss of interest in friends or play </span></span></i></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="color: blue; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Refusal to attend school or a persistent and marked drop in school achievement </span></span></i></li>
</ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Merujuk pada artikel tersebut, Naqib exhibit :</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">a)<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><u>Inability to sleep or be alone.</u></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Macam yang mama dah cerita kat atas, Naqib memang susah nak tidur. Kalau tidur pun , tak lena. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Naqib pun nak mama attend Naqib selalu. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">b)<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><u>Regression in behavior to that of a<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>less-mature child</u></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Mama perasan jugak, Naqib mintak mama layan Naqib macam baby. For example, minta dukung and tidurkan macam baby.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">c)<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><u>Imitation of the deceased person</u></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">OK mama rasa Naqib takde la tiru / ajuk <city w:st="on"><place w:st="on">gaya</place></city> arwah atok tapi Naqib tiru perbuatan Papa. Mama rasa Naqib teringat kat Papa.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">d)<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><u>Repeatedly wishing to join the deceased.</u></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">In Naqib’s case, Naqib bukan nak join deceased tapi Naqib asyik sebut papa balik.. papa balik.. Mama rasa situation ni sama.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">So, macam mana nak selesaikan masalah ni? Ikut pada artikel satu lagi (klik link ni ye: </span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><a href="http://rockon2011.wordpress.com/2006/10/22/duka-kehilangan-orang-tersayang/"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"><span style="color: purple;">http://rockon2011.wordpress.com/2006/10/22/duka-kehilangan-orang-tersayang/</span></span></a></span><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">) </span></span><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></i><span class="googqs-tidbitgoogqs-tidbit-0googqs-tidbit-hilite"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: blue; mso-ansi-language: EN;">Dengan kanak-kanak, pakar-pakar psikologi dan psikiatri</span></i></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: blue; mso-ansi-language: EN;"> menyarankan, tiada yang lebih baik daripada bersikap jujur dan telus menceritakan apa yang sebenarnya telah terjadi</span></i><span lang="EN" style="mso-ansi-language: EN;">.</span></span></div><br />
<span lang="EN" style="mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So, mama akan berusaha sehabis boleh untuk terangkan semudah mungkin pada Naqib.</span></span><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN" style="mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Harapan mama, Naqib boleh terima keadaan sebaik mungkin. Semoga dengan pengalaman ini, Naqib boleh menjadi seorang yang tabah dan sabar dalam menghadapi apa jua situasi bila Naqib besar nanti.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Regards, </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">FZL</span>Faizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-53246025619934765682011-09-23T01:22:00.000-07:002011-09-23T01:22:34.824-07:00I got an offer!!<div style="text-align: justify;">I attend a job interview on last Wednesday (14 September 2011). I received a phone call from their HR on Monday, 2 days before the interview. I did not expect to get this interview since I’ve not sent any application to them recently. They actually got my contact number from my current employee.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">So, I prepare myself for the interview. Read some procedures and scope of work of the offered post, refresh myself on my previous and current job scope, get some HR related possible questions, wear proper attire and so on. Not to be forgotten, preparing my latest resume complete with supporting document such as certificates. To conclued, I pray to Allah that everything will be smooth and may success will be mine.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">I arrived about one hour before the interview scheduled to begin. After getting permission to enter their premise, I headed to their HR office, as I was told where the interview will be. After meeting one of their staff, they offer me a seat and I was required to fill in an application form. Well, this is standard for almost every company. My turn came about after about 20 minutes of waiting. There were two interviewers, the HR Manager and the Department Manager. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The interview went well. The discussion were mainly focusing on activities that I’ve performed through out my 6 years of working. It took about less then 30 minutes to finish. Since I was not expecting this job interview, so I was not hoping so much to be accepted. Furthermore, I just started working for a new company about 3 months ago.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">A week later (which is yesterday), I received a phone call from their HR informing me that I’ve been accepted. <span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Alhamdulillah… </span>OK, it was a relief to hear that but the good news did not end there. They are more coming in. I was offered as permanent staff (I am a one year contract staff for my current employer). OK, that’s another good news. Then come to the salary part. They are offering 35% higher than my current salary. This is totally unexpected. I was like “SERIOUS??!!” (in silent). Without any thought, I accepted their offer. Now, I am waiting for their offer letter. Once received, I’ll give one month notice to my current employer. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">So, who is my current employer?</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Well, I’ll reveal it once I joint them in November (insyaAllah).</div><br />
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Regards, <br />
FZLFaizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-82097087475806153042011-09-21T22:06:00.000-07:002011-09-21T22:06:41.756-07:00Orang tak nak tolong. Marah ?Berbaloi ke rasa marah dengan orang yang tidak mahu menolong kita ? Lebih-lebih la marah apabila orang yang mengelak dari menolong kita ada orang yang pernah kita tolong.<br />
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Kalau ikut emosi, memang sangat berbaloi sebab dapat lepaskan geram. Tapi apa yang kita dapat selain dari itu? <br />
Ya, kita tidak mendapat apa-apa faedah dengan melayan perasaan marah itu. <br />
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Apa yang perlu kita buat? <br />
1) Jangan fikirkan sangat perkara tersebut. Buat-buat tak ingat je.<br />
2) Fikirkan jalan penyelesaian pada masalah bukan pada apa nak buat pada orang yang tak nak tolong tu.<br />
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Kalau tak boleh hilang jugak rasa marah tu, nak buat macam mana?<br />
1) Jawapan yang paling senang, ber'istighfar' la banyak. Mohon ampun dari Allah kerana kita dah terikut-ikut perasaan marah tu. <br />
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Membantu tak?<br />
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Regards, <br />
FZLFaizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-77862895659827039372011-09-19T21:50:00.000-07:002011-09-19T21:50:58.462-07:00I shoud not did that...<div style="text-align: justify;">Dear Naqib,</div><div style="text-align: justify;">I feel very guilty for scolding you last night. I realized that I shoud not did that to you since you are only 2 years and 8 months old. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">I should not scold at you just because you ask for milk (nak shushu) and you do not want to eat. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">I lost my control last night.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">I’ll remind my self not to repear the same mistake again.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">May Naqib be raised as a good child. Amin.</div><br />
Regards, <br />
FZLFaizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-84932728843767183232011-09-19T21:49:00.000-07:002011-09-19T21:49:18.530-07:00Papa ke lautan lagi<div style="text-align: justify;">Bismillahirrahmanirrahim</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Setelah hampir setahun, Papa ke laut lagi. Kali ini dia ke Gabon, Afrika. Kalau iku map (credit to map.google), Gabon terletak hampir dengan garisan khatulistiwa, so mama rasa cuaca kat sana lebih kurang dengan cuaca Malaysia juga. Perbezaan waktu ialah Malaysia awal 7 jam dari Gabon. Contohnya, kalau kita pukul 7 pagi, Gabon pukul 12 tgh malam. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Dari Gabon, papa akan ke Nigeria dengan kapal. Telaga minyak tu sebenarnya berada di Nigeria. Tgk kat peta tu, tak jauh pun Gabon - Nigeria ni.</span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-VoAojo7Y3Wk/TngZnfA2ncI/AAAAAAAAAFw/WXWWB2rcgzI/s1600/untitled.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" rba="true" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-VoAojo7Y3Wk/TngZnfA2ncI/AAAAAAAAAFw/WXWWB2rcgzI/s1600/untitled.bmp" /></a></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Sejak berkahwin dan sejak ada Naqib, inilah kali pertama Papa pergi oversea jauh. Sebelum ni setakat Brunei, Singapore and Indonesia je. </span>Laut mana pun yang Papa pergi, komunikasi antara kami sangat terhad. <span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Hari-hari tertunggu-tunggu call dari Papa. Papa pulak bukan la seorang yang rajin call. Paling kuat pun, seminggu sekali. Macam hari ini, walaupun baru 4 hari Papa bertolak, mama tertunggu-tunggu jugak Papa call. Nak jugak tahu keadaan Papa. Harap-harap dah selamat sampai and dah start bekerja.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span>Takpela, mama rasa Papa susah nak call maybe because of kat <place w:st="on"><country-region w:st="on">Gabon</country-region></place> takde line telephone. Hahaha… </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Walau apa pun, mama doakan Papa selamat pergi, selamat bekerja dan selamat pulang. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Insyaallah kita jumpa selepas 2 bulan.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">as of 20-9-2011, Papa dah selamat sampai ke Gabon. Alhamdulillah.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Papa kata, atas kapal susah nak call since kena beratur panjang. So, mama kena faham sendiri la kalau papa jarang call. No problem papa. As long as papa sihat and takde apa-apa masalah, insyaallah, Naqib and mama will be just fine here.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div>Regards, <br />
FZLFaizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-80567599649056353502011-09-12T23:30:00.000-07:002011-09-12T23:30:07.301-07:00Pertemuan Terakhir (26 Ogos 2011)<div style="text-align: justify;"><u><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Khamis : 25 August 2011</span></u><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Aktiviti hari ini sama dengan rutin harian yang biasa. Hantar Naqib ke rumah nenek, pergi dan balik dari kerja, masak, berbuka puasa dan rehat. </span>Since, esok suami saya dah apply cuti raya, dia kata nak tonton TV lama sikit. Saya dan Naqib masuk tidur dulu.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Dalam pukul 11 malam, tiba-tiba phone husband berbunyi. Saya tgk no KL yang appear so saya pass phone kepada dia. Ingatkan dari kawan-kawan dia, rupa-rupanya dari Angah Ling(abangnya). </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Husband masuk bilik and siap-siap untuk ke Klinik Sungai Rengit. Katanya nak tengok Pak Teh (panggilan untuk bapa kandungnya) yang sakit. Medical assisstant kata kena hantar Pak Teh ke Hospital Kota Tinggi. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Dalam pukul 12.00am, husband balik hantar kereta and tunggu Angah Ling ambil untuk sama-sama ke Hospital Kota Tinggi.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><u>Jumaat : 26 August 2011</u></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Nota : catatan masa hanyalah sekadar anggaran.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">4.00 am - Telephone saya berbunyi. <span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Antara sedar dan tidak, saya menekan "answer". Saya dengar husband dengan suara tangisan berkata "Pak Teh dah nazak". Saya terpinga-pinga.. Baru petang tadi jumpa dia masa jemput Naqib. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Saya cuba positif. Mungkin masanya belum tiba. Tapi dalam masa yang sama saya juga berdoa agar Allah tentukan yang terbaik untuk Pak Teh.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">5.30 am - Lepas bersahur, saya call husband untuk tanya perkembangan. Katanya, Pak Teh masih di dalam. Saya tanya suami kalau saya perlu mengambil emergency leave hari ini. Dia kata, standby je la kat rumah.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">6.45 am - Suami call dan bagitau, Pak Teh telah tiada. Innalillah...Dia minta saya ke rumah laut(rumah mertua saya) dan tolong Along (isteri Angah Ling) get ready apa yang patut.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">7.15 am - Suami call lagi. Kali ini katanya mesin kembali menunjukkan kadar denyutan jantung bermakna Pak Teh masih bernyawa. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">8.30 am - Lepas kejut Naqib, bagi susu and mandikan dia, kiteorg ke rumah laut (Jarak rumah kami tak jauh). Masa tu rumah dah berkemas and ready untuk jenazah sampai. Masa tu dah ada 2-3 orang kampung yang datang melawat. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">10.30 am - Suami call mengesahkan Pak Teh kini telah tiada. <span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">3 kali dia call bagitau bapanya telah tiada, 3 kali dia menangis. Ini kali pertama saya dengar suara dia menangis sejak saya mengenalinya.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Since, orang dah ramai kat rumah mertua, bacaan Yaasin dan Tahlil diadakan. Saya tak dapat concentrate membaca kerana perlu membantu menyediakan kelengkapan untuk pengkebumian (walaupun takdela sibuk sangat sebab banyak orang surau yang buat & Along pun dah siapkan awal).</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">11.45 am - Jenazah sampai. Masa ni dah tak boleh kawal perasaan sedih lagi dah bila tengok Mak Teh menangis. Lelaki yang menjadi suaminya selama hampir 50 tahun akhirnya meninggalkan dia... (Masa kenduri hari raya korban tahun lepas- 2010, dia kata nak buat kenduri sempena 50 tahun usia perkahwinan mereka pada 2012).</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Aduh,Air mata ni asyik mengalir je. Naqib pula pelik kenapa mama dia nangis. </span>Asyik sibuk minta tisu and lap my tears. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">FZL :Naqib, tu atok. Atok dah takde.</div><div style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt;">Naqib : Atok sakit ( sbb dia nampak atok diselimukan dengan kain putih).</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Berderai lagi air mata saya. Orang yang dengar Naqib cakap macam tu pun sama jugak. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Saya nampak suami saya yang kelihatan sangat letih mungkin sebab dia tak tidur malam tadi. Tambah pula level emosi yang sangat tak stabil. Dan... matanya merah.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Masa jenazah dibersihkan (sebelum mandi), husband bawa Naqib tengok. </span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Naqib : Atok mandi. (sebelum jenazah sampai, saya bagitau Naqib tu tempat atok nak mandi).</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Since dah dekat waktu solat jumaat, urusan memandi, mengafan dah solat jenazah akan disambung usai solat Jumaat.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Dalam pada menunggu, Naqib dah mengamuk sebab saya rasa dia letih asyik berdukung je. Masa baca Tahlil, dia akhirnya tertidur. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Setelah jenazah selesai dikafankan dan dibawa ke hall rumah, saya sendir tak lagi dapat mengawal tangisan apatah lagi orang lain yang rapat dengan arwah. Isteri, anak-anak dan cucu-cucu mengelilingi jenazah bergilir memberi kucupan terakhir buat arwah. Semuanya dengan deraian air mata.. kecuali cucu-cucu yang kecik-kecik.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Sambil tu, saya nampak suami bagi signal minta saya bawa Naqib cium atok buat kali terakhir. Suami nampak hampa bila saya balas isyaratnya dengan isyarat " Naqib tidur".</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Beberapa orang yang menziarah (mereka): Naqib tidur ker?</span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">FZL : Dia tidur la. </span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">mereka : Kesian nya. Nanti dia mencari pulak atok dia.</span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">FZL : tu la. </span>Takut jugak kot jadi macam tu (with tears in my eyes).</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Selesai semua, jenazah dibawa ke tanah perkuburan dan selamat dikebumikan selepas solat Asar.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">*********************************************************************************************</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Perkenalan</span></b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Tempoh saya mengenali arwah sangat singkat, kira-kira 5 tahun sahaja. Saya menghormatinya sebagaimana saya menghormati bapa saya. Namun, sejak 2 kebelakangan, sejak saya tinggalkan Naqib dibawah jagaan mertua saya sementara saya kerja, saya cuba untuk lebih mengenali arwah. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Arwah merupakan seorang imam untuk surau Kampung Simon. Dia juga merupakan bilal untuk solat jumaat bagi Masjid Teluk Ramunia. Rupa-rupanya, malam sebelum arwah meninggal, dia sempat mengImamkan solat terawih malam ke 26 sehingga ke rakaat yang ke 20. Allah mengasihi arwah. DIA telah menetapkan arwah meninggal pada hari Jumaat, bulan Ramadhan.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Pemergiannya adalah sesuatu yang tak dijangka. Memang dalam tempoh 2 bulan dia memang selalu berulang ke hospital. Bermula dengan diserang Denggi, 2 kali dia dimasukkan ke wad. Kemudian dia dibawa untuk menjalani rawatan alternatif (saya tak tahu apa nama rawatan tapi jenis rawatan membersihkan darah). </span>Dia nampak sangat cergas lepas rawatan tu. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Memasuki bulan puasa, dia mengadu sakit perut. </span>Sejak itu, 3 kali dia dibawa pergi ke HSA untuk check-up. The last one was on 24-8-2011. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Atok dan Naqib</b></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Sejak berusia 2 bulan (skrg Naqib 31 bulan), Naqib saya tinggalkan dirumah mertua sementara waktu saya bekerja. <span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">So, mereka agak rapat. Sehingga hari ini, saya selalu teringat-ingat akan kenangan mereka berdua.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Naqib pandai sebut ”atok” dulu berbanding ”mama”, ”papa” & ”nenek”.</span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Setiap kali jumpa Naqib, mesti nak cium. Sampai sekarang Naqib selalu ikut atok cakap ” Masham” kalau sesiapa cium dia.</span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Naqib lebih manja dengan atok berbanding nenek.</span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Naqib selalu ikut atok bagi ayam makan. Tiap-tiap petang, dia akan ikut atok gi kat reban and bagi ayam makan. Kadang-kadang, Naqib akan kejar ayam-ayam tu.</span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Naqib suka main bola sepak. Selalu lah atok yang melayan dia main bola. Semalam, masa Naqib main bola kat luar tiba-tiba nenek cakap ”Atok cari bola yang kecik tu. Ntah mana pergi nya” . <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Kami<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>hanya mendengar tanpa membalas takut-takut kalau<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>nenek bertambah sedih.</span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6.<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Selalu bawa Naqib naik motor pergi kedai. Masa atok meninggal, Kak Lela kata ” baru je aku jumpa dia bawa Naqib gi kedai”.</span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">7.<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Gambar terakhir atok dengan Naqib ialah masa sambut birthday Naqib yang ke-2 dulu. Baru teringat atok yang request snap gambar tu.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Begitu juga dengan cucu-cucunya yang lain. Atok memang rajin melayan. In fact, masa atok meninggal, hampir semua cucu-cucunya duduk sekeliling jenazahnya.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Di hari-hari terakhirnya</span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1)<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Mengikut kata MIL, dia beriya-iya nak beli TV baru walhal sebelum ni dia susah betul nak tukar TV lama tu. </span>So, 2 minggu sebelum tu dia beli Plasma TV, 42”. </div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2)<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span>Suami saya kata antara hari gembiranya ialah masa dia main kejar-kejar dengan Naqib dalam minggu terakhirnya. Parut Naqib jatuh masa tu still ada sampai sekarang…</div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3)<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span>Dia memakai kemeja yang kami belikan sebagai baju raya, untuk ke medical check up nya. Saya berkata dalam hati “ Eh, dah pakai baju raya”. <span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Mungkin dia dah dapat rasa yang dia tak sempat pakai baju tu untuk raya. </span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4)<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span>Dia beriya-iya menyuruh my MIL<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>mengemas rumah dan memasang carpet untuk menyambut raya. <span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Sehari sebelum dia pergi saya nampak carpet dah siap dibentang. Rupa-rupanya persediaan tu sebenarnya untuk menyambut jenazahnya....</span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5)<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Dia sempat khatam Al-Quran 2 kali dalam bulan Ramadhan tahun ini. Alhamdulillah My MIL kata dia tengah in process nak khatam kali ke-3.</span></div><div style="margin-left: 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6)<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Kali terakhir saya melihat dia ketika hayatnya ialah pada sekitar jam 6pm ketika mengambil Naqib dari rumahnya. </span></div><div style="margin-left: 108pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">FZL & Suami : Naqib, babai atok.</span></div><div style="margin-left: 108pt; text-align: justify;">Naqib : Atok, jom naik car. <span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">(Sambil tunjuk seat belakang)</span></div><div style="margin-left: 108pt; text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Arwah atok hanya melambai sambil tersenyum.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Sampai sekarang masih tak sangka yang dia telah tiada. </span></div><div style="border-bottom: windowtext 3pt dotted; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; mso-element: para-border-div; padding-bottom: 1pt; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; mso-border-bottom-alt: dotted windowtext 3.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 1.0pt 0cm; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Sehingga ke hari ini, masih lagi teringat-ingat akan arwah dan setiap kali teringat mesti bergenang air mata. Kadang kala, ketika memikirkan plan masa depan Naqib, secara tak sengaja termasuk kan Arwah dalam plan...</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Bila Naqib dewasa nanti, mungkin dia dah tak ingat lagi pada Arwah Atok tapi selagi termampu, akan saya cuba untuk sentiasa mengingatkan Naqib yang dia pernah mempunyai seorang atok yang sangat baik. Buat masa ni, saya melatih Naqib untuk memberi salam setiap kali kami melalui tanah perkuburan atok. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Panjang sungguh catatan ini. Harapan saya agar ianya boleh dijadikan kenangan untuk Naqib bila dia besar nanti.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Akhir sekali ... semoga Arwah Bapa Mertua saya , Othman Bin Ahmad sentiasa dirahmati Allah. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Amin</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">Regards,</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="NO-BOK" style="mso-ansi-language: NO-BOK;">FZL</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div>Faizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-2757786123098103972011-09-08T22:27:00.000-07:002011-09-08T22:27:49.163-07:00.. and who says?While driving to my workplace this morning, I heard this song. Hey, this song has made me realize that people says are not so important and long as I am being my self. I am sharing here the lyrics so that it may also motivate other people who read it. I am highlighting parts that I like the most!! <br />
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<div align="center"><strong>Who says? by Selena Gomez</strong></div><div style="text-align: center;">Wouldn´t wanna be anybody else <br />
Yeah <br />
<br />
You made me insecure <br />
Told me i wasn´t good enough <br />
But who are you to judge <br />
When you´re the diamond in the rough <br />
I´m sure you got some things <br />
you´d like to change about yourself <br />
But when it comes to me <br />
I wouldn´t wanna be anybody else. <br />
<br />
I´m not beauty queen, <br />
I´m just beautiful me. <br />
<span class="goog_qs-tidbit goog_qs-tidbit-0">You´ve got every right </span><br />
<span class="goog_qs-tidbit goog_qs-tidbit-0">to a beautiful life </span><br />
<span class="goog_qs-tidbit goog_qs-tidbit-0">Come on </span><br />
<br />
<span class="goog_qs-tidbit goog_qs-tidbit-0">Who says </span><br />
<span style="background-color: yellow;"><span class="goog_qs-tidbit goog_qs-tidbit-0">Who says you´re not perfect? </span><br />
<span class="goog_qs-tidbit goog_qs-tidbit-0">Who says you´re not worthy? </span><br />
<span class="goog_qs-tidbit goog_qs-tidbit-0">Who says you´re the only one</span> that´s hurting <br />
Trust me </span>That´s a price of beauty <br />
Who says you´re not pretty? <br />
Who says you´re not beautiful? <br />
Who says? <br />
<br />
It´s such a funny thing <br />
How nothing's funny when it's you <br />
You tell 'em what you mean <br />
But they keep whiting out the truth <br />
It´s like a work of art <br />
That never gets to see the light <br />
Keep you beneath the stars <br />
Won't let you touch the sky <br />
<br />
I´m not beauty queen, <br />
I´m just beautiful me. <br />
Nana nana nana nana nana na <br />
Nana nana nana nana nana na <br />
You´ve got every right <br />
to a beautiful life <br />
Come on <br />
<br />
Who says <br />
Who says you´re not perfect? <br />
Who says you´re not worthy? <br />
Who says you´re the only one that´s hurting <br />
Trust me <br />
That´s a price of beauty <br />
Who says you´re not pretty? <br />
Who says you´re not beautiful? <br />
Who says? <br />
<br />
<span style="background-color: yellow;">Who says you´re not star potential? (FZL : star does not only meant for a movie star, right?)</span>Who says you´re not presidential? <br />
Who says you can´t be in movies? <br />
Listen to me, listen to me <br />
Who says you don´t pass the test? <br />
Who says you can´t be the best? <br />
Who said? Who said? <br />
Would you tell me who said that? <br />
Yeah, Oh <br />
<br />
Who says <br />
Who says you´re not perfect? <br />
Who says you´re not worthy? <br />
Who says you´re the only one that´s hurting <br />
Trust me <br />
That´s a price of beauty <br />
Who says you´re not pretty? <br />
Who says you´re not beautiful? <br />
Who says? <br />
<br />
Who says <br />
Who says you´re not perfect? <br />
Who says you´re not worthy? <br />
Who says you´re the only one that´s hurting <br />
Trust me <br />
That´s a price of beauty <br />
Who says you´re not pretty? <br />
Who says you´re not beautiful? <br />
Who says?</div><br />
<br />
What say you?<br />
<br />
<br />
Regards,<br />
FZLFaizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-76380361868425524612011-09-08T22:14:00.000-07:002011-09-08T22:14:21.090-07:00How did I Climb?I am sharing here a lyrics from an international singer, a song call " The Climb". This song has actually indirectly gave me a motivation for me to get thru the down-time of my life last year.<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>"The Climb"<br />
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<!-- start of lyrics --></strong>I can almost see it.<br />
That dream I'm dreaming, but<br />
There's a voice inside my head saying<br />
You'll never reach it<br />
Every step I'm takin'<br />
Every move I make<br />
Feels lost with no direction,<br />
My faith is shakin'<br />
But I gotta keep tryin'<br />
Gotta keep my head held high<br />
<br />
There's always gonna be another mountain<br />
I'm always gonna wanna make it move<br />
Always gonna be an uphill battle<br />
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose<br />
Ain't about how fast I get there<br />
Ain't about what's waitin' on the other side<br />
It's the climb<br />
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The struggles I'm facing<br />
The chances I'm taking<br />
Sometimes might knock me down, but<br />
No I'm not breaking<br />
I may not know it, but<br />
These are the moments that<br />
I'm gonna remember most<br />
I've just gotta keep goin', and<br />
I gotta be strong<br />
Just keep pushing on, cause<br />
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There's always gonna be another mountain<br />
I'm always gonna wanna make it move<br />
Always gonna be an uphill battle<br />
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose<br />
Ain't about how fast I get there<br />
Ain't about what's waitin' on the other side<br />
It's the climb<br />
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There's always gonna be another mountain<br />
I'm always gonna wanna make it move<br />
Always gonna be an uphill battle<br />
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose<br />
Ain't about how fast I get there<br />
Ain't about what's waitin' on the other side<br />
It's the climb<br />
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Keep on movin'<br />
Keep climbin'<br />
Keep the faith baby<br />
It's all about, it's all about<br />
The climb<br />
Keep the faith, keep your faith, woah <!-- end of lyrics --></div><div style="text-align: center;">Songwriters: JESSI ALEXANDER, JON MABE</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;">Well... I believe that there will be "another mountain to climb". Orang tua-tua kata, ada hikmah disebalik suatu kejadian and I am totally agree with them. What say you?<br />
</div>Regards, <br />
FZLFaizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-683826827597764812011-08-01T21:57:00.000-07:002011-08-01T21:57:23.028-07:00My sonSalam everybody,<br />
let me introduce you to my only child (at least at this moment). His name is Muhammad Naqib Bin Nizam. He was born on 2nd January 2009 at my 37 week of pregnancy at Hospital Penawar, Pasir Gudang.<br />
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His development during his first 12 months was quit well. I might say that it was according to the graph. He crawled at 6 months. His first teeth showed at his 10 months and he walked at 12 months. <br />
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However, during his 18 month, I realized that he was unable to pronounce mama or papa. At this stage he called me as 'dada' and unable to address his papa. There were only a few simple words that he managed to said like 'cat', 'no', 'na nak (tak nak)', 'goal', 'cake'. All those words are the things that he likes most. So, I decided to refer him to pediatrician. During the check up, there were a lot of questions asked by the doctor. From my pregnance till Naqib's current development / achievement. As far as i can remember, he was at 26 month back then. Result for that check up was really a relief as i was really scared if he was to be diagnosed as austisme. Syukur, he was a very healthy kid. What we need to do is to refer him to speech theraphist and do some audio test. Both test was first scheduled to be done on last June. Since, I just started my new job at that moment, I have to postpone the test to September. Now, I am re-considering to bring him to meet both specialist since Naqib has shown a very positive development.<br />
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On June 2011, Naqib was actually at 30 months (ikut kata orang melayu, 2 tahun setengah). I realized that since then, he was able to call me as "moamma' and hia papa as "bpoabpa". I am sooooo touched when he first call me momma. hihi.. His papa were even more happy than me since he actually had a feeling that Naqib was kind of ignoring him... alahai, what to do. I was unemployed for 12 months and be around Naqib 24/7 while his papa was only at home during weekend. Comfirmla, si anak manja dgn his mama. <br />
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So, by now (he is 2 years 7 months old), his vocab is improving. He likes to imitate what we said. Well, i believe that every mother loves this moment kan?. Ha, and the most thing that impressed me is that yesterday i heard him singing "twinkle, twinkle little star" . The only word that he sang clearly is "star", others were replaced by nananana.. hihihi.. so cute!!<br />
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I would love to share some tips for a mother having a child who still can not talk at age of 18 - 24 months.<br />
1) Do not worry to much. Your child may be concentrating on their other development i.e. motor skill. In Naqib case, he is excellent in playing football. He started kicking ball as soon as he managed to walked. <br />
2) At the same time, consult your peaditrician. Just in case your child DO have any problem, it will be lots of way to solve/cure/improve.<br />
3) Well, some child may be categorized as "lambat bercakap". Sooner or later, they will be able to talk. <br />
4) Do not give up teaching them. They may not respond it immidiately but they are actually absorbing the information you taught them. This is really work for me. I taught him the "twinkle-twinkle" song since he was very small. He then suprised me when he sang it himself when he was 2.5 years. <br />
5) Last but not the least ; pray to Allah for the best for your child. Allah know everything. There must be a hikmah on any thing that Allah have planned for us.<br />
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Cheers!!<br />
FZLFaizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005704049704001911.post-27188266431068245822011-07-29T20:11:00.000-07:002011-07-29T20:11:42.079-07:00The first write up - Salam RamadhanWell, this blog has been created in February 2011 (as far as I can remember .. :)) but it is just been re-launch (ceh, launch kunun) today. Lauched by my first post in it. <br />
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It will be Ramadhan in two days. Well I've been wating for this months since months back. I have hope for this year Ramadhan. Hoping that it will not be an empty Ramadhan for me and my family. I've wasted like almost 10-12 years of Ramadhan. Waste by meaning of no extra ibadah been done. .. Sedihnye... How i wish i can go back to my boarding school period where there will be a Solat Tarawaikh been done without failed. Aduyai, lepas sekolah terus susah nak buat.. terikut-ikut dengan kehendak penyakit malas....<br />
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Last Friday, Ustazah Norizan in her tazkirah at musolla al-falah has reminded us to clean our soul before Ramadhan so that we can perform ibadah peacefully (meaning no malas-malas) and to gain pahala too. So, how to clean our soul? According to her, whenever we feel that we are out of track, betulkan niat semula. Niatkan semula ibadah yang dilakukan adalah kerana Allah semata-mata. She gave us a simple example. During Solat, sometimes we yawn. According to her, yawn caused us deviate (owh, i should not us deviate) from niat. So, try not to yawn and correct your niat again (I am praying for Allah). Well, during her talk, I've felt like to yawn so quickly I hold myself and niat (Ya Allah, I am in the middle of seeking a knowledge for You). Believe it or not, I did not feel sleepy at all after that (during her talk).<br />
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I have to stop now.. again, I hope that this year Ramadhan will be a better Ramadhan for me, my family and all muslim out there. If you feel like so tired during fasting, try to betulkan niat, InsyaAllah He will help.<br />
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Salam Ramadhan.Faizlin Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07079465858907869547noreply@blogger.com0